Anonymous asked: so i think i have a little crush on this guy but there are several turn offs, like physical turn offs. he has the sweet and caring personality that ive been looking for though. maybe im just too vain but what do you think i should do? continue to like him or let it go cuz of the turn offs?

It’s hard to find guys with sweet and caring personalities, because many of them are assholes. So if you finally found someone with a great personality I think you should go for it. You’re not too vain, I understand you but remember that no ones perfect!

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Anonymous asked: I'm (pretty sure) I'm bi but my whole school (including my "bestie") are all shallow, homophobic assholes. What should I do? :(

What you decide to do is up to you. In my opinion, if you’re sure you are bi, you should first tell your family. Then if you’re ready tell your friends. It’s going to be hard, but you’ll be fine. If your best friend doesn’t accept you, then she was never a friend in the first place. It’s better to find out who will stick by you and who your friends are now rather than later. Good luck :*

Anonymous asked: This guy I like always thinks he's smarter than me, and anytime I try telling him something he always tells me I should be doing something different. It gets me mad and sometimes sad. What can I do to make him to stop without hurting his feelings?

Don’t let him get to you. He’s probably just trying to impress you. Tell him you really don’t like when he says things like that. If he realizes that what he says hurts you, I’m sure he will stop. 

Anonymous asked: help im gay and i dont know what to tell me family. im a shit head

Get your family together and sit them down in one room. Tell them you need to tell them something and that you really hope they will be loving and understanding. Then tell them. They may be shocked at first, but thats normal. They might also have questions for you. I’m sure they will understand and love you the same. Oh, and you are not a shit head. Good luck :) 

Anonymous asked: Is being 18 and a virgin really weird or strange? :(

Not at all! Having sex for the first time is a really big thing and you should only do it when you’re ready. There’s no specific age when you have to lose your virginity. I respect you for not having sex yet. You should do it with someone really special at the right time. 

Anonymous asked: I really like this guy and we only just started 'dating' (we have been talking for about 3 months), the only problem is we are really different, religiously, politically and what-not, but when we talk (skype) we get along really well. Should I be worried that eventually this difference is going to cause some sort of problem for us? :(

If you get along really well, then I think you should just go for it! Don’t worry about your differences. Try to get past them. If it isn’t a problem for you guys now, I’m sure it wont be later! xo :* 

Anonymous asked: At what age should I lose my virginity?

Whenever you feel ready! My only suggestion is that you do it with someone you love and know won’t hurt you <3